BRING SOMETHING TO THE TABLE!

I dare ask you this all important question: "WHAT DO YOU BRING TO THE TABLE?" I mean, THE TABLE OF LIFE!

What do you add to people's lives? What value do you add to your organization? What input do you bring to your friend's lives? WHAT DO YOU BRING TO THE TABLE?
Don't be like those who just stay with people to drink and milk them dry. Let it be said that about you: "if not for him, we wouldn't have gained or achieved that feat or being this good..."
Always bring something to the table! Refuse to be a parasite!

From my experience in speaking and counseling, I have discovered that one of the most popular reason many business and romantic relationship fail is because one of the partners bring NOTHING to the table. It doesn't take time before one of those involved resent and 'outgrows' the relationship or partnership because he/she is been depleted by it....
It has nothing to do with gender... It equally isn't necessarily about money, VALUE is what matters most!

Ask yourself this question again and again: "What do I add to my friends, organization, relationship and family...?"
What would be missed if I was to relocate tomorrow morning? To those in relationships, what if you were to break-up tomorrow morning, what will you partner miss? Would there be something more than a cute face or a great look? The answer to these questions will help you live a better life.

No matter how much CONTENT or RELEVANCE you seem to have, if you keep hanging around people who 'BRING NOTHING TO THE TABLE', you are gradually wasting away and depleting yourself...

"Iron sharpens iron..." What's the use of being around a 'plastic'? If your value must increase, hang around people who are doing what you have been dreaming of.

Haven't you being around certain persons, and yet you wished you were alone? There are certain people you spend some of your time with, and you just hate yourself at the end of the day for doing it. They bring NOTHING TO THE TABLE.

He's so so handsome......She's so so cute.... this will only be your attraction to the opposite sex as long as the teenage mentality stays with you. As you grow older, you need something more real, you need substance - not just vapor... You need VALUE!
Truth is, EVERYONE of us first get attracted by what we see or hear, but our 'STAY' is determined by the quality of the benefits in the relationship.

Reason is, as you grow older in life, everyday challenges and problems arise, certain disappointments and difficulties shows up... we just need to have people [and someone] of VALUE around us to move ahead....

Dear friend, as you increase your VALUE, you will attract your kind. Everybody has a duty to 'WORK' on himself and increase his/her self-worth, stop waiting for people to give you a life.
Stop being a parasite, stop being a ZERO!

I want to see you at the TOP, that's where you belong!
You must happen!